"When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, 'I used everything you gave me.'" ~Erma Bombeck


Showing posts with label Eternal Value. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Eternal Value. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 12, 2017

JOY COMES IN THE MORNING!

Psalm 127

A song for pilgrims ascending to Jerusalem. A psalm of Solomon.

Unless the Lord builds a house,
    the work of the builders is wasted.
Unless the Lord protects a city,
    guarding it with sentries will do no good.
It is useless for you to work so hard
    from early morning until late at night,
anxiously working for food to eat;
    for God gives rest to his loved ones.
Children are a gift from the Lord;
    they are a reward from him.
Children born to a young man
    are like arrows in a warrior’s hands.
How joyful is the man whose quiver is full of them!
    He will not be put to shame when he confronts his accusers at the city gates.


Once in awhile in a flurry of excitement, I just want to SHARE something...really wonderful, really funny, really bad, really...anything...with someone...ANYONE!

But then I think:  Would *anyone* even care about this anyway?  Would *anyone* even have time to listen?  (The list is short.) Would *anyone* NOT think I'm a dork? (The list has just grown shorter...)

The hard, honest truth is:  Probably Not. 😏

When God shares a special insight with us, He gives us a pearl.  When we run with our pearls to just *anyone,* it often ends in disappointment.  We must be selective about who we share our heart's treasures with.

Jesus tells us in Matthew 7:6:

“Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces."

Am I saying our family and friends are pigs?  No.  BUT...when we share things that are close to our heart, and then discover that people just don't "get it" or don't have time, don't respond, or even end up discouraging us, we must ask ourselves:  Was it worth it to share?  

So what do we do with all these pearls (and sorrows, and fears, and, and, and...)?
The answer to all of those questions above is the same:  Give them to God. God always cares...always has time...never thinks I'm a dork.  He already told me what He thinks of me:
I am His good work in progress...
I am His masterpiece....
I am filled with His Strength...
I am Fearfully and Wonderfully made...

That is TRUTH. Because He said so! :)

Philippians 1:3-6
"I thank my God every time I remember you. 4 In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy 5 because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now, 6 being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus."
and

Ephesians 2:8-10
"God saved you by his grace when you believed. And you can’t take credit for this; it is a gift from God. 9 Salvation is not a reward for the good things we have done, so none of us can boast about it. 10 For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago."


2 Corinthians 12:9-11
"But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. 10 That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong."

Psalm 139:14
I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.

Sometimes we as Mamas (and humans, for that matter) forget how God sees us, and we base our worth/success/moods on "how good" we are being...or how funny or interesting we are.  I think at the base of our hearts we are wondering:  Am I special?  Am I making a difference?

The Enemy of our souls would love for us to be defeated in every way every day. I'm so thankful that God took special care to remind us that we are precious because we are HIS, not because of what we do or how far we have come so far. His Strength is Perfect in our weaknesses...I want to glorify Him in my weaknesses (which are countless...ever so many) so that His Power may rest on me!

~Grace and Peace from one of God's masterpieces to another

Tuesday, June 28, 2016

Confessions of a Trim Healthy Prodigal...


Once upon a time...
In a galaxy far, far away...
In the land of winken, blinken, and nod...

There I was..."awesomeing" on my THM journey.  I was exercising, and drinking water, and cooking, and baking, and washing blenders, and pots, and pans, and counters, and sinks, and dishes, and...and...and...

And then my enemy accused me...he told me I was obsessed...and vain...and shallow...and legalistic...
he told me to take a break...to back off...not forever...just for a little while...just for a holiday...just a bit...

complacency crept in and stole my passion...
apathy arrived and robbed my joy...
For the next while, I was surviving.  Not living...just surviving...

and I got sick...and tired...
then my mom got cancer, and the world stopped spinning...
we took on added responsibilities, and my time kept dwindling...
I had to have surgery, and my strength kept fading...
I got sicker, and my health was disappearing...

Doctor appointments...
Ultrasounds...
Blood work...
Diagnoses...

mom almost dies...
she gets diagnosed with a second type of cancer...
sister is extremely sick and hospitalized...
I am going, driving, sitting, helping, not sleeping...
I develop more health problems...

I don't have time to be sicker and tireder (is that a word?).  My parents need me...my husband needs me...my girls need me...my sisters need me!

Where are you Jesus?  I need You!  Can you hear me?  What have I done wrong?  Where is my healing?  Where is my help?  Where is my strength? Where is my deliverance?  I AM WORN.

What can wash away my sin?  Nothing but the Blood of Jesus!
What can make me whole again?  Nothing but the Blood of Jesus!
Oh! precious is the flow
That makes me white as snow;
No other fount I know,
Nothing but the blood of Jesus.


Then it came...a doctor's appointment with a slap in the face...scary words with scary possibilities...

WAIT!  I don't have time to be THIS sick.  Not slap-in-the-face-sick!
Not THAT tired.  Not hit-by-a-train-tired!

WAIT! I do think I can make a little time to keep "awesomeing"...a tad of time to keep exercising, a smidgen of time to keep drinking water, a dab of cooking, a smattering of baking, a bit of washing blenders, pots, pans, counters, sinks, and dishes, and...and...and...

Inch by inch, step by step, yard by yard, mile by mile...I came back...HOME.  Is Trim Healthy Mama "Home?"  No, but it's a room in my Home.  My Father was waiting for me...He left the Light on for me...He had a bed of REST with fresh linens waiting, and a hot HEALTHY meal ready.  He ran to me and CARRIED me through the door.  Because HE IS...He is Love...and Healing...and Strength...and Deliverance...and...and...and...

LIFE happens all around us, and we cannot control it.
We can only control the voices we choose to listen to.
I took a slight wrong turn once upon a time, and listened to the whispers of my enemy.
My life was wracked with pain and suffering...
Then...HOME.  Life, Truth, Help.

Don't do it...don't listen to anyone or anything else except HIM...

HE IS...
Liberty
Infinite
Freedom
Eternal.

HE IS LIFE!

Put on your Armor and Fight, young lady! (Ephesians 6:10-18)



~Grace and Peace to you, Fair Iron Maidens of Virtue

Monday, November 23, 2015

COFFEE BREAK


Today is the first Monday we've had off in months!  No homeschool co-op (even though we enjoy it); no doctor's appointments (I had surgery in September); no company coming over (of course we love it when they come!); and no hubby home (again with the love, though).  In fact, I am so excited for this week, I can hardly stand it!  So much to be THANKFUL for!!  AND so much to do!!  Yet I was reminded that Being Still...Taking a Coffee Break...is not a waste of time.  It is an investment in my day.  Every time I skip this stillness of my soul in the morning, the rest of the day is often chaotic and unproductive.  Mornings are hard.  I get it.  I also know that life is short, and skipping coffee with Jesus can open the door to mistakes, regrets, and discouragement.  Nobody needs that!

This year, Thanksgiving Day will be simple and sweet.  It'll just be the six of us and Mom and Dad.  We are making the main dinner this year for the first time....Mom has been fighting breast cancer for almost a year, and chemotherapy is an unkind companion along the journey.  Thankfully, Mom has been spared many of the most dreaded side-effects, but the nagging fatigue is ever-present.  This verse continually passes through my mind, as I think of and pray for her.  We cannot heal ourselves...that job is God's alone!  But we can be still in His presence. Life is a precious gift.  And it can sometimes be short.  I am so thankful for God's fighting on behalf of my mom right now, and I don't want to take it for granted!



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After relishing a few extra moments with my pillow this morning, my first stop was caffeine.  If you know me at all, you know how much I love my coffee...even if on crazy days it takes a never-ending cycle of reheating in order to get it done! ☺

Coffee creamer...this is an area of my life that I have had a death-grip on.  I have tried all sorts of bullet-proof coffees, Trimaccinos, half & half or cream/extract/stevia combos.  So far, none of them have been *bad* but none have really floated my boat, either.

Trim Healthy Mama has two new books out!  The original book was awesome, weighing in at over 600 pages.  I love it and still have it!  However, these new books are so very user-friendly.  The plan itself is in the first book (below - left), while the cookbook (below - right) has over 300 recipes, complete with color photos!  It's wicked awesome! ♥




So today, I was finally ready to try something new (again) for my coffee.  I love peppermint mochas this time of year (I am NOT a pumpkin fan in beverages!  GAG!)  Using the new THM Sweet Blend
I made a batch of peppermint Skinny Chocolate (S) disks.  It comes together in a cinch, and I can find most of the ingredients I need from any grocery store.  Thankfully, we have a Trader Joe's nearby!  I ♥ TJ's!

 If you don't like to use coconut-flavored coconut oil, you can purchase refined (unflavored) CO at most any grocery store!


(See the Peppermint Mocha creamer in the background?  That will hopefully fade more into the distance if this can make up for the flavor!) ☺
I plopped one of these into my coffee, along with a swirl of cream and YAY!  Although I'll probably still enjoy my other coffee creamers from time to time, this was perfect today! ☺



MOCHA-MINT SKINNY CHOCOLATE (S)
Print this recipe


INGREDIENTS:
1/2 c. coconut oil (melted)
1/4 c. cocoa powder
2-3 tsp. ground THM Sweet Blend
teensy pinch sea salt
Peppermint extract

DIRECTIONS:
Melt coconut oil until liquid.  Add cocoa powder, ground THM Sweet Blend, and salt, stirring well.  Add 2-3 drops of peppermint extract (or about 1/2 tsp), stir and taste.  Adjust to desired sweetness/flavor profile.  Pour into molds, onto lined plate, or into ice cube trays.  Freeze until solid.

~Blessings and Peace in Stillness (& a great cuppa coffee) from our home to yours!

Sunday, November 22, 2015

SPECIAL OCCASIONS



LIVE ♥ LAUGH ♥ LOVE

Those are some of my most favorite words...They are written on a coffee cup, a wall hanging, an over-the-door thingy, my cell phone wallpaper, and even embroidered on a pillow!

Yet, I struggle daily to implement them...what do they really mean?

♥ LIVE~to be present in the moment; intentional with affection and attention; to engage in active listening, thoughtful responses, and careful contemplation.  What captures our attention most?  Social media?  Our personal goals?  Self-consciousness?  Self-indulgence?  Or the needs of others?

♥ LAUGH~laughing is an intimate glimpse into what makes one "tick."  What we find humorous is often a reflection of our character, as well.  Do we snicker at the expense of others?  Do we find ourselves guffawing at risque humor?  Can we giggle at our own mistakes and foibles?

♥ LOVE~I Corinthians 13 defines love for us... Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.  Love never fails.  Do we struggle with patience?  Are we quick to forgive?  Do we struggle with envy?

If I am honest, I know that I am struggling on a daily basis with these three "L" words.  I am far too easily distracted by the *ding* of a received text.  I am focused on myself and my circumstances far more than on the needs of others, at times. I find myself slogging through a day, rather than truly LIVING!

I don't laugh nearly as much as I could.  Sometimes I allow the weight of the world, or concern over a loved one, or preoccupation with a problem to cloud my vision and steal my JOY! 

My love can be stale and dry at times.  If I have emotion, but not action, it is sentiment and not love.  When I turn into "Momzilla" because someone has forgotten to clean up their mess for the eleventeenth time, it is not LOVE!

But you know what?  There's one more exquisitely lovely word that I am learning to treasure, too:  GRACE!

G: God's
R: Riches
A: At
C: Christ's
E: Expense

Jesus paid it all!  When God looks at me, He sees me as cleansed, righteous, and redeemed BECAUSE OF JESUS!  Grace is the warm fuzzy socks on a cool evening.  It's the cup of hot coffee in the dawn's early light.  It's the squeezy-hug you get from a loved one.

GRACE.  My newest and sweetest friend.  I'm looking forward to growing old with you. And thank you for reminding me that you've been here all along.  I don't want to wait until a special occasion to remember you.  Being alive in Christ is a Special Occasion!





~LIVE, LAUGH, LOVE, and GRACE from my heart to yours! ♥



Wednesday, November 18, 2015

30 DAYS OF THANKFULNESS



Much has happened in our family lately that has given us a run for our money in the "give thanks in all circumstances" department.  We have been keeping busy with school, chores, family gatherings, and Bible studies; we have also had our share of health concerns, home repairs, and financial challenges. If we find ourselves continuously complaining, our focus is likely on our comfort rather than our Calling.  We must be INTENTIONAL about praising God and giving thanks!

 I THESSALONIANS 5:16-18 says~

"Rejoice always, 
pray continually,
give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus."

In an effort to prepare my heart for Thanksgiving every November, I strive to make a list of 30 (at least) Days of Thankfulness.  Here's my list so far.


30 DAYS OF THANKSGIVING (2015):
DAY 1~La Famiglia! This family God gave us is a crazy, loud, sweet, sacrificial bunch!! 
DAY 2~A delicious, hot cuppa coffee with cream, cocoa powder, and cinnamon!
DAY 3~Daughters who bless us with their awesome talents...like pumpkin scones with cinnamon glaze!
DAY 4~ Being married to my best friend is awesome! We don't always see eye-to-eye (he's a lot taller), he puts up with my corny jokes and even laughs (most of the time). He makes me coffee, brings an occasional bouquet of flowers, and loves to surprise me (even though he usually gives it away accidentally)...I'm so thankful God blessed us with this journey together!
DAY 5~ We are so thankful God blessed us with our 4 Little Women! When the doctor told us we may never have children, we cried. And we prayed. And God chose to bless us with His gracious miracles. Though we have children waiting for us in Heaven, the ones God shared with us here are our earthly riches, indeed!
DAY 6~ My parents, who faithfully live out their marriage vows with grace...for better or worse, in sickness and in health...I love you, Mom and Dad!
DAY 7~ I am so thankful for my besties/blessed sisters! I'm loving growing older with you wild and crazy gals!!
DAY 8~ Today I am thankful to be able to live in this cozy house, where my grandparents used to live, and where we Live, Laugh, and Love!  This has been a hospitality house over the years...many special memories, family holidays, visits with friends, meals around the table, cups of coffee, and much laughter here!
DAY 9~ These kiddos are such fun & entertaining blessings! Having nieces and nephews and a "Cousin Club" 10 members strong is pure awesomeness!
DAY 10~ So THANKFUL for the privilege and blessing of being born in America with liberty and freedom we cherish so dearly! We are undeserving of so much bounty, but ever so thankful!
DAY 11~ What can I say about our Veterans that hasn't already been said today? In the words of George M. Cohan [composer of "She's a Grand Old Flag," "Yankee Doodle Dandy," "Over There," and many other patriotic songs], "My mother thanks you, my father thanks you, my sister thanks you, and I thank you..." including our own family...Daddy, Grandpas, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins and friends who have served! 
DAY 12~ I'm thankful for humor and laughter!
DAY 13 ~Today, I am thankful for the truth and comfort of God’s Word!
"Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.
Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you." ~Philippians 4:4-9
DAY 14 ~ Today I'm thankful for the OMNIPRESENCE, OMNISCIENCE, OMNIPOTENCE, and LOVE of God!!
DAY 15~ God hears and answers our prayers! He is intimately involved in the affairs of men and governments! He sustains the universe with the same power that created it. God works through people and nations in great events and unnoticed details. All His actions demonstrate the gravity and brilliance of His justice and goodness.
DAY 16 ~ FREEDOM is never free...it always has bloodshed as the pricetag! Thank you, Jesus, for shedding your blood to set us free from sin's deathgrip! And thank you, veterans, patriots, and defenders of liberty! {"It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery."~Galatians 5:1}
DAY 17~ So thankful that we can KNOW where to find the TRUTH, even though the world around us is full of conflicting voices, beliefs, and ideologies!
TRUTH =Honest, correct, authentic, fact
HONESTY=Speaking the Truth
KINDNESS=Speaking the Truth in Love
DISCERNMENT=Speaking the Truth Wisely

DAY 18~ I am so thankful that HE IS....
The Breath of Life,
The Passover Lamb,
Our High Priest,
Living Water,
Bread of Life,
The Lion of Judah,
The Lamb of God,
Our Savior,
Our Shepherd,
Our Mediator,
Our Salvation,
The Way,
The Truth,
The Life,
Our one and only way to Heaven,
The Alpha,
The Omega,
Our Everything....

DAY 19~ Our pets!  They keep our house wild, noisy, cuddly, and entertaining.  Two pugs and two Siamese kitties are more than enough! 
DAY 20~ So thankful for the Voice of Truth reminding us of 1 John 1:9 ~ "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
DAY 21~THANKFUL that God is our Helper and our Sustenance! {Behold, God is my helper; The Lord is the sustainer of my soul. ~Psalm 54:4}
Thank you, Lord!

DAY 22~ No matter how good the words of men sound, no matter how the promises of men fail, I am so THANKFUL that God's Words are ALWAYS good and true, and His promises NEVER fail! Don't live as those who have no hope! Our hope is found in Him alone!  
DAY 23~


 So let me ask you:  WHAT ARE YOU THANKFUL FOR????

Thanksgiving Blessings from our home to yours!

Thursday, August 13, 2015

JESUS' LITTLE LAMB





Every time I hit a point of desperately wishing I had someone to talk to about something I need advice on, help with, wisdom about, peace over, etc...I am so humbled and overwhelmed with the fact that THAT'S WHO JESUS IS!!!

Duh! That's the whole point of prayer! Even if I didn't ever have another human to interact with in this life, I always have Him! I think I'm finally getting a better glimpse of the Bigger Picture! What a Friend I have in Jesus...what a privilege to carry everything to God in prayer!

I'm so thankful for His patience in leading this silly sheep...and His loving-kindness in carrying His little lost lambs!




Monday, August 10, 2015

YOU ARE MY STRENGTH WHEN I AM WEAK...EVERY MORNING...even during mourning



Overwhelmed. Burdened. Wiped out. Weary.


Have you been there? A lot? I have...and it's not pretty!

Last Friday I had every intention of cleaning/de-cluttering the house and being finished by Monday (today). Lofty goal, I know, but I've been gnashing my teeth at the chaos that has continued to multiply in the face of lovely, precious gifts of clothes, shoes, etc. being donated to our very grateful family...and yet, needing to wash, sort, store, utilize, donate, etc. bundles of many things. Sometimes I feel like the guy keeping all the plates spinning on those poles, only to have one wobble and fall and systematically every other plate comes crashing down. Disaster. Discouragement. Disheartenment. (is that even a word?) Dread.

I have cried out to the Lord so many times for the strength, wisdom, guidance, help, etc. for the health and energy to complete all my chores. He is faithful, as always, but I never--ever---ever get done. Ever. Sometimes in my distress I cry out to the Lord, but am unable to put into words all that I feel, think, need...the words get choked in my throat and I have nothing, but I know His Word promises that the Holy Spirit interprets for me to my Father in Heaven!
"And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don't know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words." ~Romans 8:26

SOOOOOOOOOO...although I've prayed many times and always received His help and strength enough, last night I gave up. I looked around at my weekend-worn house. Busyness had over-taken my to-do list. We had the lovely pleasure of relaxing with family this weekend. I had been so content to trade chores for precious time with my true treasures--family. Yet now--late Sunday night--I looked around at the "aftermath" and became discouraged and overwhelmed again. (Why, you might ask, do I think I have the time to write in the blog if I have so much to do? Because this has ETERNAL VALUE).

As I lay in bed last night, I began my prayers in the usual way, then began to add these burdens--when I just stopped. I couldn't go on. How could He possibly care? Still? Again? Never-ending problems, never-changing situation, ever-the-same prayer requests.... "I'm sorry, Lord, I know I sound like a broken record. I never learn. I never do better. I'll never get it right. So, never mind...just skip it." And that was that. I spent the rest of the time in bed reading a book until the wee hours of the morning and then drifted off to sleep.

THIS MORNING--
 ..............the one where His mercies are new every MORNING...


Lamentations 3:22-26~


"22 Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed,

for his compassions never fail.
23 They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.

24 I say to myself, "The LORD is my portion;

therefore I will wait for him."

25 The LORD is good to those whose hope is in him,

to the one who seeks him;

26 it is good to wait quietly

for the salvation of the LORD."


..............the one where this is the DAY that the Lord has made, let us REJOICE and be GLAD in it...(Psalm 118:24)


..............the one where the Psalmist writes in Psalm 5:1-3:


"1 Give ear to my words, O LORD,

consider my sighing.

2 Listen to my cry for help,

my King and my God,

for to you I pray.

3 In the MORNING, O LORD, you hear my voice;

in the MORNING I lay my requests before you

and wait in expectation."



On THIS MORNING of THIS DAY, God sent me a song. Seriously. You may think that I'm being flippant or irreverent, but MY GOD loves me and SENT me a song!



"GREATER" by MercyMe

Bring your tired
Bring your shame
Bring your guilt
Bring your pain
Don’t you know that’s not you’re name
You will always be much more to me

Every day I wrestle with the voices
That keep telling me I’m not right
But that’s alright

‘Cause I hear a voice and He calls me redeemed
When others say I’ll never be enough
And greater is the One living inside of me
Than he who is living in the world
In the world
In the world
And greater is the One living inside of me
Than he who is living in the world

Bring your doubts
Bring your fears
Bring your hurt
Bring your tears
There’ll be no condemnation here
You are holy, righteous and redeemed

Every time I fall
There’ll be those who will call me
A mistake
Well that’s ok

There’ll be days I lose the battle
Grace says that it doesn’t matter
‘Cause the cross already won the war
He’s Greater
He’s Greater

I am learning to run freely
Understanding just how He sees me
And it makes me love Him more and more
He’s Greater
He’s Greater